What to tell a guy who doesn't want to wear a condom

I have noticed many teenage girls are using this app to track their menstrual cycle and many are talking about having sex. Sex is a big deal, girls, especially when you are still in high school. You need to really trust the guy you are thinking of having sex with. You will deal with guys giving you all sorts of excuses to have unprotected sex. You may be on the pill, but thats not enough. STDs are a real, serious thing and if you think you are ready to have sex, you are ready to handle the consequences because sex, protected or not, can have consequences. Big ones. I am now happily engaged and pregnant and I can't wait to meet my baby, but I have explored my sexuality in high school too.

Here is a list of what to tell a guy who doesn't want to wear a condom.

If he says: "It's uncomfortable"

You can say:

So is pregnancy

So is paying child support

So is AIDS

So is Herpes

So is burning when you pee

So is a screaming toddler at the grocery store while everyone glares at you

So is birth

So is waking up every 2 hours of the night

7 minutes of discomfort on the dick will save you 18 years of discomfort...in general.

If he says: "It doesn't fit", "I'm alergic to latex" "It won't feel good for you!"

No problem! Being responsible means carrying condoms with you as well. Trust me, you will thank yourself for it. I use to carry 4 types of condoms with me when I was dating. Normal, magnum, lambskin and ribbed.

They never had excuses.

If he says: "Don't worry, I'm clean"

Some guys will LIE in order to have sex. You don't know who they've been with. You don't know if they have been lied to as well. Men don't show symptoms of STDs as easily as women do, so many of them don't know they may be a carrier.

Girls if he is still trying to get out of wearing a condom and disrespecting your wishes, get the hell out of that situation! Teenage boys are mean and they might start a rumor that you had sex with them, even if you didn't. Get back at them by saying something like

"Yeah it was so weird. He has a really gross stuffed toy fetish."

"He could only wear snug fit and even those were too big!"

"He cried when we were done and called for his mom"

"He asked me to call his Josephine."

And for all my guys out there: same applies to you. Run if unprotected sex is the only option to your partner!

YOU CANNOT BE TOO CAREFUL!