trusting your instincts.

My boyfriend is a general contractor. In the past he's gotten jobs that have to be done at night which I have went to with him. This past Friday, he told me he had a job at 9pm that had to do with a restaurant that needed some fixing asap! I didn't think anything of it bc like ALWAYS, I go with him anywhere. His kids were suppose to go home that Friday so he needed to drop them off. When the time came, I asked if I was coming with him and he said no because he was going straight to the job. Hmm... I didn't say anything, I just said okay. He got in the shower and when I went into the bathroom he was all shaved... Okay... I said "you're shaving to go to work" so he started bitching that he was shaving for me bc earlier that day we were talking about him shaving. Which I agree. So he leaves, then calls me talking shit about how I'm ungrateful bc he's trying to work to support our family and I'm over here bitching about him shaving and going to work... Whatever. I stayed quiet, we hung up the phone and he didn't get home until 3am... Which he had mentioned he was getting home around that time. We were already in an argument so I didn't speak to him when he got home but I noticed he was wearing a different shirt, he had bought new shoes and new pants??? Ummm, what the fuck is going thru my mind right now? Anyway, I ignore him and I go to sleep. I wake up in the morning and I start questioning him. He also left his car at the "JOB" because his license is suspended and he has warrants so he doenst like driving that late. Instead he got an uber which cost $50. We have joint accounts so I can see how much and where he spends our money... We get into another huge argument and then I gave up and just let it go. BUT all these little things are such huge RED FLAGS FOR ME! I'm 20 so I'm definitely naive and want to believe he wasn't doing anything. This guy is has shown me he wants to be with me, why would he ever want to go behind my back and betray me like that? I don't have proof that he wasn't working like he said so I'm still investigating. So I know the fact that he came home with different clothes says a lot but how stupid can he be to show up with different clothes knowing I seen him before he left. So lately I've been acting different with him although I still have no proof. I don't know if I'm putting shit into my head or I'm this feeling I have is actually true.... I also what to add how even though I'm acting different he still wants to be nice to me... Who does that? I know he doenst. Bc when we argue we just won't talk to each other especially if I'm the one acting a bitch.. You know when your man is acting different right? Cause I know too.... I just can't see him doing me like that. I go everywhere with him, I can grab his phone whenever I want and go thru it. I don't know... Just needed to vent.