what do I do?

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Friend of 4 years and I had a falling out.. Apparently. I was unaware of this, she just stopped talking to me for about 5-6 months. After a text, she finally told me a couple of things that bothered her. NOTHING I DID: 
1. Political posts on fb upset her and some of our other friends. 
2. She feels (felt? Idk) that I am pushy in the since that I text her often (?)

Again, I didn't do anything to her & I finally got an answer as to why she has been so distant. I am the type of person that wants to talk things out, so this is exceptionally hard for me to understand.

Makes me feel like she doesn't respect me enough to talk things out. But, I do get everyone handles things differently.

Advice?

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Move forward,  real friends don't complain about dumb shit like that

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It is definitely your right to post whatever you want to on your Facebook account.  However, you do so at the risk of alienating those who read it.  She doesn't have to like what you post and she's probably telling you the truth in that other people were also offended.  The question is do you care about it?  I'm guessing that you don't.  You haven't said that you regret having offended her.  You say the opposite that you haven't done anything to her.  It sounds like she wanted to avoid a confrontation maybe because she knows that what she says will have no effect on your beliefs.  If she wants to politely drift away, that's her choice.  She's under no obligation to talk it through with you.  The truth is that she just doesn't like what you have to say and/or doesn't like the way you say it.  So, why would she want to be your friend?

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Yeah, that's dumb of her. She pissed because you were being a good friend (texting, checking in), and she's just acting like a little bitch. Sorry... I'm in a bit of a mood today, lol. People like her piss me off. You'll find some better friends!

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Sounds like she is a sucky passive aggressive friend, and that you might have missed subtle cues.

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That's not a real friend. If they wanted to be friends, that trivial stuff wouldn't matter.

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She might have just been thinking that you both are different from each other. Or didn't feel like she clicks with you any more. Sometes I unfriend people too, that I no longer feel like I have things in common with any more. My guess is that's maybe the reason sense she's no longer liking your posts on fb. I do that with friends I no longer feel close to also. No harm done on her part.

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Petty. Forget her

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So am I understanding correctly that you don't actually make political fb posts or text often? (The NOTHING I DID is confusing me a little, sorry) I might have better advice pending the answer to that question, but one thing I'd definitely say to her is that you are a talk-it-out kind of person & you definitely want to be told if you're inadvertently doing something that upsets her so that you can discuss it & fix the issue! I'm the same way, & I've had that talk with a few friends over the years. I think some people are afraid of "confrontation" but you're kind of reassuring them that you're open to civilized discussion.

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