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My husband doesn't ask how my day was ever. Never attempts to help with chores, even though we both work full time. Doesn't invite me out with him and his friends, texts on his phone NONSTOP, has his phone locked.... Has never once complimented me. Does not try and work things out - meaning I desperately want another child, he only wants one. We do not have sex anymore. I'm 27 and he's 30.....

I have had it. I don't even feel like we're in a relationship anymore. I told him I can't live this way and says we can "try and work on things", but we never do. Maybe I need to try more. I know I ain't perfect but come on. I think it's probably time to leave. Do people just drift apart? We have been together for 8 years. I'm just broken.

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Never asks how ur day was- not the end of the world
Doesn't invite u out with his friends-meh, not something I would personally have an issue with. 
Texts non stop and has,a lock on his phone -DID HE TELL U THE CODE? IF HE KEEPS HE'S CHOICE A,SECRET -THAT'S AN ISSUE. My fiance and I both have codes on our phones, but we,know each other's codes and I answer texts and calls for him all the time and vice versa.
He does not want another child- are u financially able to have another child? Why is he saying no?
He SAYS he wants to work things out but he never does- it's time to sit down-intervention style and have a REAL talk.
And at the end of it, YOU need to make a decision on weather u are happy with the end result of the sit down or if u are done.

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It sounds like you're already trying to work on things, and doing all the work. The only advice I have is to try to sit down with him (without him being on the phone), and tell him what's bothering you, just like you did here. Good luck, hun. 💕

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Counseling maybe?

It's a suggestion , maybe it will work to talk in a more therapeutic fashion and setting. Maybe he will wake up a bit, having a second opinion from a professional.

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You guys should read the book the 4 love languages, it's a good place to start

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