upset and sick about it - no sleep tonight

Fighting w my husband, again! I'm sick of fighting. With a 3 yr old and 7 month old, all we do is argue and fight over how much we do as individuals. "I cut the grass." "Well I Cooked dinner." "I loaded the dishwasher, but I actually washed the dishes." I'm over it! I'm heartbroken and sick of crying!!! He's in bed asleep bc instead of taking about "us" he'd rather sleep. He bought a new video game this week and every night when the kids go to bed it's all he wants to do. I work nights, so I don't care if he plays while I'm gone, but damn can I get some time with you too? Then when he finally gives it up al I hear is "I never get to play." So we started fighting yesterday and all though we talked about it , the tension is still there. So tonight when I asked if we could hang out I was told, "we can have sex and then I'd like to stay up for a few hours and play my game." Well damn, can't a woman get some cuddles? Hell I already don't get to sleep beside him through the week, now my nights off I can't either? What gives? Am I overreacting? He's mad bc when he got in the bed to have sex, instead of kissing me, he went straight to the "pussy" and skipped the rest. I got mad and got up. So I'm the bitch..... I can't take it anymore and I have no one to talk to about it! Please..... Give me some comments on how to make this beyyer