Birth Control.

Let me just start with,

I was put on the pill at 13 (horrible cramps that caused puking, not able to move for at least a day & i missed a lot of school)

Switched to the shot at 16/17 cause i wasn't remembering to take the pill correctly... stayed on the shot for 2 years, got off because i read it caused bone density problems & i don't get enough calcium as it is... switched to the patch for about 2 months until my insurance wanted me to pay a ton for it - then i stopped birth control completely. Didn't get pregnant until a year and a half after stopping (we weren't trying for a baby, just used the pull out method obviously not consistantly LOL) ANYWAYS NOW TO THE POINT:

I got back on the shot right after i had my baby, like they gave me it right before i was discharged from the hospital.... had 2nd shot in July blah blah. I think its making me gain a lot weight(it didn't the 1st time) now i'd like to switch... i was looking into Paraguard (100% hormone free thing inserts kinda like mirena) BUT lately I've been seeing so many, and i mean a lot, of people having to have surgery to remove it cause it didn't stay in place... now I'm thinking of not doing anything, just using spermicide..

My question is, What are you mommies doing to prevent another one so quick??

I want another baby, i just wanna wait until after summer 2017 to start trying again.