I started TTC since oct 2015, and although I was not in a rush to be preggo, I was starting to feel frustrated (even with charting and temping). I was quite certain that by checking CM and OPK I should not have a problem in achieving BFP.

In May 2016 me and DH decide to visit the gynecologist. They recommended that DH did a sperm test as well so that they could have see more data at the same time. We dropped by on CD16, sperm test was not the best but gyne assure us that I was OK. I felt that it was not that OK because the sperm count was at the most minimum, but I guess the gyne didn't want to stress us up. (Which was probably a good move)

Additionally, she did an ultrasound scan and found out that my egg was still inside and have yet to ovulate (at CD16) and encouraged us to keep trying and don't give up.

It never occur to me that ovulation may happen later than the standard CD14. What's more I always had EWCM on CD14 too! Me and DH had always stopped bed time activity before CD15 thinking it was times up.

With the clues from gyne visit I roughly planned out the days and extended our bed activity days from CD12 till CD21 (instead of previous CD09 till CD15). I told DH to stop drinking his favorite soybean milk which may contribute to low sperm count. 4 months later in Sept I have got my First BFP!

Contrary to the many signs that leads to the ultimate BFP, mine was only:

CD20-22 EWCM

8-12dpo: minor pelvic pains out of nowhere, cm continues to be watery/creamy

At 13-14dpo: the pre-AF feeling is so strong that it seemed like AF is approaching, very wet feeling down there, wears pad just in case

14dpo: faint BFP line (local brand test kit)

15dpo: BFP line in Clear Blue plus

placenta previa