Not big enough...

I just have to rant a little bit.. I'm 33 weeks pregnant and all I hear is " oh you're barely showing" "are you sure your pregnant?" Let me tell you something as a mom to be that's having a high risk pregnancy it's not OKAY to say that EVER..  I don't have stretch marks okay some women don't get stretch marks deal with it.  This is my first pregnancy so far I only gained about 4-5 lbs., I've always been thick with a small waist. I currently weigh 192lbs .. I think that's pretty damn big.  Some women should watch what they say because it can be a bit damaging especially if you don't know the woman personally. My baby has CHD ( Atrioventricular  Septal Defect with Heterotaxy Syndrome).  I have to monitor my baby twice a week.. And specifically her heart twice a month just to make sure she's still breathing .. So to make a long story short stop pointing out things that are clearly obvious to a woman.  It's annoying and the opinions aren't always needed.