"So you're a newly wed. When are you guys going to have a baby?"

I went to a family cook out today and i think 98% of the family asked me this today. Almost everyone asked me when my new husband and I were going to have a baby.

I just smiled and said "whenever the timing is right"

Knowing that it is not that easy.

All of my cousins and siblings have multiple children and could have them all so easily.

They dont know that we have been trying for 14 months.

Its just becoming unbearable.