Not really pregnancy related just can't go to my husband with these issues and you ladies are pretty supportive. Sorry it's so long. My brother is 4 years older than me and lives in another province. I don't talk to him often, he generally only texts me when he wants to borrow money then makes me feel like crap if I don't give him any. He came to visit me with his girlfriend and 6 kids last Christmas. My husband was in the hospital at the time and I was trying to go back and forth to be with him but had all these people at my house. They pretty much destroyed my house. Expected me to feed the kids. Never cleaned up after any of them and had a new puppy that was messing constantly in my house. I ended up getting really sick and ended up in the hospital as well. My husband was so mad said my brother wasn't allowed to stay with us anymore. So this summer I wanted to see my nephews so I planned to fly down there (while pregnant) and spend the weekend with them. He left me with his kids while they went out and got drunk all weekend. Didn't spend any time with me at all. He hasn't text me since never asked how the pregnancy is going (I'm now on bed rest so there's been some issues). And he just text said they'll be closer to us during thanksgiving and wondering if they can come stay here for thanksgiving weekend (October 10 in Canada). I'll be finding out on the 6th if I'll be having a c section which might be that coming week. I told him I didn't want them to come and of course my mom thinks he's perfect child and doesn't understand why I would say no so now I kinda feel bad but I know I shouldn't, right?