Arguments are a totally normal and healthy part of a relationship but if you never make up or you always feel like you're the only one compromising to fix the issues.... Is that normal or healthy? Is it normal to sleep in the same bed with someone that won't speak to you and pulls away when you try to hold them? Is it normal to have a disagreement because YOU had a bad day and they were being mean and suddenly YOU'RE the one apologizing? Yes honey. I'm sorry I had a sucky day. I'm sorry that my co workers and boss were yelling at me all day and telling me not to do things I wasn't even doing. I'm sorry that I asked for Taco Bell. I'm sorry that I wanted to watch a movie together when all you wanted to do was scroll on Facebook. But damn. Can you just coddle me for two seconds and scroll later?