Am I being pregnant and hormonal or do I have a reason to be upset?

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It's our 1 year anniversary today and my fiancé hasn't done or planned anything for today. He gets off work 4 hours before I do so he had plenty of time to possibly go get me flowers or a card or even post something sweet on facebook? Instead I come home to him laying and bed without even a welcome. No happy anniversary.. No nothing. I wrote him the longest sentimental card I have ever written and got him a small gift. Now I'm in the living room crying because I'm not worth even a $1 card? I feel like I should just burn the card and take myself out to dinner. I don't expect a gift at all.. But at least something free and sentimental? It's the thought that counts however there is none here😔😣😢

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Give him the card take yourself to dinner put him on the couch

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I'd be upset too.

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I get why you are upset, but guys typically don't care as much about anniversary or are not good at planning stuff.

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I would be mad too... But not all men are sentimental. Some just don't care, or don't think about things like that. Just another day to them.

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Did he forget? You might need to add it to his phone calendar for next year

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I would be upset if my boyfriend ignored our anniversary.  Especially if I were going to be pregnant!  I was pregnant on our last,  but it was very early on.  I know he won't remember it on his own but that doesn't mean he doesn't care.  I'll just be like hey babe!  Guess what tomorrow is!!  And then he'll be like oh it's our anniversary!  And then we will plan something to do together.

I don't think you're being too sensitive.  It's obviously important to you to at least acknowledge each other,  which shouldn't be an issue.  He can celebrate with you,  even if he isn't "sentimental" .  I don't think it's really "sentimental"  to celebrate the life you are sharing together.

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Some guys just aren't into the sentimental stuff. For my boyfriend, there wasn't anything special handed to me on my birthday or anything. I'm not expecting anything after the birth of our child or on our one year either which for us is just two months away. It's not his kinda thing. I enjoy surprising him on Father's Day and his birthday and such but it's simply not something that he reciprocates and that's completely fine by me.

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My husband is terrible at any sentimental event or big day in general. Like my birthday is next week, I know that he doesn't have anything planned so I just tell him what I want, very specifically and plan it myself. I grew up with a dad who spoiled my mom- so this was an adjustment. But I know he loves me, he's just bad at it, or that's his excuse. Either way, I know not to expect anything and that works for us.

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Guys just are t that great at that sort of thing a lot of times. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you- he is just wired differently lol. I mean, if he was TOO attentive to that sort of thing it would be strange lol! No man in my life ever remembered my birthday without being reminded until my husband came along. He's different tho. Most men are like the dads and uncles I have. It's just not a big deal to them.

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Has he always been this way? Or is he typically thigh lucky? Did he possibly forget it was yalls anniversary?

Here's my thoughts about being hormonal- would this have upset you whether you whether you were pregnant or not? You would know if it would or not.

Am I being pregnant and hormonal or do I have a reason to be upset?

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