Aggravated

I'm being induce sep 20 with my second child and i get to have 3 ppl in the room and I'm bringing my 2 sisters and husband.......but suddenly my husband wants his mother to be in there I mean I told him straight up she is not....I don't feel comfortable with her looking at my spread up vagina and butthole but now he is mad at me for not wanting his mom there 😕 am I being selfish about it?