Am i the only loyal person out there??

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I cant be the only one but sometimes i feel that way. EVERYONE that i work with is fuckin and suckin someone else that we work with, who is not there significant other, including my husband. Am i the only one that has morals and a conscience? 
Listening to these ppl talk about there conquests makes me so sick to my stomach and they have no remorse no regrets. I couldnt even imagine doing that to someone and causing that much hurt. And i think if all the times my husband and i have talked about how shitty that is and these ppl are so wrong and then he went and did it to. 
 Sometimes i wonder if its even worth it to care. Why have morals no one else does.

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I'm loyal 😊

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God ikr my husband told me he was giving his mates a lift home from the bar as they were drunk and these friends of his were married and cheating on their wives openly saying how "amazing" it is like ohhh she won't know so its not bad. They even tried talking my husband into it so he just said no I have a good wife at home waiting for me . I told him to never associate with hooligans like that I can't be dealing with bad influences. But if he did cheat on me he would be a dead man walking

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Thank you ladies for the support. 😊 but im not just talking about my situation. I feel so awful for all of these other ppl that are going through this. I want to just throat punch everyone that i work with, and really anyone that cheats on there spouse. Every relationship has problems but messing around with someone else does not help the original situation. Obviously it makes it worst. 
The one guy i work with has cheated on his wife with atleast 3 people (again ppl that i work with) and he has had a relationship with the one girl for almost a year now. His wife found out and moved out and the guy is acting like hes the victim! Oh poor pitiful me my wife left. Dude you left the relationship along long time ago. And then this idiot gives out relationship advice!!! Are you serious? And ppl actually kind of listen to him! Really. I look at the girls and think how could you sleep with a married man? 
And i look at my husbands mistress and i think to myself you knew about me, your child doesnt have a father, why would you wnat to wreck someone elses world? Its not my fault her baby doesnt have a dad. Meaning im not the one who took him or anything. How could you feel ok fucking around wih a man that you consciencly know is married? And then i look at my husnand and think how could you do this? If the shoe was on the other foot how would you feel and handle it. I look at him and just wonder what went through his head at the time. Like did he even care? Did he talk about amounst the other men in my workplace the way that they talk about tere conquests and get a good chuckle out of it like the other guys do? 
It just makes me so sick. I keep saying that but idk how else to explain it.

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You are not the only one. It's just not as "cool" to brag about how you are faithful to your partner. I don't personally know anyone who has admitted to cheating.

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Nope. Two loyal people in my relationship. After a lot of cheating in my first marriage. So I'm no stranger to that betrayal.

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I am loyal. I hate cheaters.

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You're not the only one. I'm loyal. I hope that you kick his ass to the curb and make him work like hell to only attempt to win you back. But that takes a lot of strength and will power to do and many people would rather just stay in painful situations than start over because it's easier. It's your world to create so I don't know what you are going to do. But I do know that People arent loyal because so many people loyal ppl accept people that are disloyal. They think they are working it out when really they just don't want to be alone. If you talked about cheating and he did it, he doesn't respect you. Matter of a fact, He doesn't respect you if you talked about it or not. It's not a secret that people shouldn't cheat on their spouse. I hate that you are going through this but I'm hoping that this is some type of wake up call for you to sort your life out.

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Do what you know is right 💙