*SISTER RANT*
This may seem petty and I'm fine with that. I need to get it off my chest and who better to tell than a bunch of strangers?
Anyway, my older sister was recently married last summer and just had her first child 2 months ago. I have been married for 7 years, have a 4 year old and am expecting my second child next month.
Every time we talk she can't help but give me unsolicited pregnancy and newborn parenting advice! It is driving me nuts. I want to tell her I'm well aware of what to expect considering I've been there before, but she is obviously excited to be a FTM and I don't want to take away from that.
She seems to make everything about her. Last year; between the bridal shower, bachelorette party and wedding in which I spent several thousand dollars to be a part of. The entire year was based on her wants, needs and bridezilla tantrums.
This year, I politely waited until after her baby shower before even announcing my pregnancy, as to not take away from her exciting news. All I got from her was " At least you will have the my beautiful wedding photos to look back on while going gray with 2 kids."😠😠
This is most likely my 3rd trimester hormones, but I just want to fucking SHAKE HER!!!! I never realized what a self centered woman she is until these last two years, but I am officially hopping off her ego. Please excuse this messy rant, but I really needed to bitch about it. Thanks y'all.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.