wth does he mean

I'm so confuesed husband told me he wanted a baby a few months back so we have been trying for months without the craziness that come with ttc then he tells me today we get into the subject about Babys and he says that we should become more successful and when it happens it will happen and he started talking about getting our life together and I totally agree and in all this I'm thinking he's totally right I want my life to be completely in order before I start having children so in the end of our convo I say " ok babe I will schedule a birth control appointment asap" and he said wtf no and I'm like what do you mean no it's true what you said we should definitely work on our careers first and he's like oh now I have to get you pregnant I need to lock you down ..... Like wtf does that s*** even mean hes confusing me idk what he wants anymore. What do you lovely lady's think ?