BIRTH CONTROL...Now or Never!!! 😕😬

B3autifu!
I've been back and forth in my mind before I got pregnant with my baby girl, to get on Birth control. I just haven't had much luck on a previous BC I tried called Nuvo ring. Absolute Hated it yall I bled for 3 months straight. After i stopped the use i still had spontaneous bleeding spells, so I stayed away from BC all together. Just used Condoms which i never had any problem with using. Im coming around to the idea of BC as a back up for my peace of mind. Sum guys play too many games with these comdoms yall. They say they got the condom on but dont use em. And I don't want another kid so soon. I love my babygirl and glad she here. But she only 1 and dont wanna intentionally have another child. I want a partnership b4 tht shld happen. I pratice not having sex since i dont wanna be on BC.sex is natural and u dont always plan on it. But I jus got this feeling yall if i dont ...yea u knw the rest.😕😬 any suggestions?? Be gentle but honest.