I lost my baby Sunday. Or that's when I found out atleast, levels showed maybe Friday I miscarried. I was 7 weeks when I found out. I had my D&C yesterday and that was a lot of closure but I keep having awful flash backs to the emergency room, and I feel like I have experienced a lot of trauma from it. I didn't know I had lost my baby yet and I remember the doctor using forcepts and swabs and pushing on my stomach... has anyone been through a "birth trauma" or something like that?? How do you cope?