My bf today told me "he has more real life and stress than me". What bothers me is he knows my parents are gettingg dovorced, my grandma has cancer, im struggling to get a job. Well hes off living in a frat life partying the weekend/weekdays away. He pays the cable/electric bill which everyone gives him money for and his parents pay his part. I get he has shit to but he just has to make everything about him and put himself up while lowering me down. I cant take it anymore😢 please help  He knows how stressed and chaotic i am and just ignores it i cant anymore