My husband watches porn and wants me to have plastic surgery! HELP!!!!

Hello girls! I am having a very hard situation. I discover my husband with lots of porn (videos/pictures) on his phone. When I confronted him he said it was normal and that men do it. I have been trying to be understanding but it has only made me feel less of a woman and doubt my husband to the point of not trusting him at all. I don't feel good when having sex at all because I feel like he could be thinking about all those things he sees and all those women. Also, he has repeatedly tell me that my boobs are too small and that he wants me to get surgery. I am happy with my body as it is and don't agree with plastic surgery at all. I think that if he truly loves me and he chose me as his wife then he should love me as I am. Any advice???? Help!!