Feeling alone...

So my ex was a piece of shit. He mooched off me and was controlling and emotionally abusive, BUT he did on many occasions make me feel loved. Like real love. He would want to hangout with me all the time and just have fun and talk and he would hold me and make me feel like I was the only girl in the world and like I wasn't just some sex toy but like I was his family. Now my new bf is great, he supports me financially, takes me out, takes me shopping, cooks for me, but I still don't feel loved by him. I go to bed every night feeling empty. He never cuddles with me or kisses me goodnight he just seems to be only concerned with sex but it's not just that it's his overall energy towards me. He doesn't make me feel the way my ex made me feel. He acts annoyed with me a lot but I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong. I feel like I'm stranded in the middle of the ocean by myself, if anyone can relate. This is really fusterating and upsetting so I just need some support or advice :/