abusive relationship

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I'm a survivor of an abusive relationship. I am an empath... He a narcissist... The perfect recipe from hell. I was with this person for about 9 years until I escaped. The damage is unforgettable but I am recovering from the trauma and rejoicing in my new life. I have started a new job where some of my issues are effecting my efficiency. I am a little defensive and am struggling with trusting the people I work with. In my past life I was not only tourtued physically but I had my identity taken away as well. I sometimes struggle with knowing how to "feel" and I have my walls up. Do I share my past with my boss so he knows how to manage me better or do I just keep working on myself and keep this private so I don't seem incapable????? 
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Ra

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Share your relationship issues with a close friend....don't share with your boss...it could cause more problems at your work...if you must share anything say you are working towards a new life and need patience and grace in your work.

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N • Sep 22, 2016
I agree

Da

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I'm in a similar position, healing from abuse, and I shared a bit with my previous employer, but she and I were closer than some. I ended up having to leave that job because of my ex but I was happy I had a support system to help.