Plans for relatives during and after birth
So my mom is coming to visit for over a week from the states (live in Germany). I'm a little nervous about it but haven't gotten my nerve up to talk to my mom about it... she just decided on her own to book her flight right around and on due date, of course want her to be here to meet her 8th grandchild ;-) I'm the only girl tho so close with my mom but her first time being in a foreign country and she can be overbearing sometimes. I wouldn't have minded her coming a week or 2 after due date so we may have been more settled... im debating whether I should say something to her like come up with a legit plan, probably haha.
As for my SO's fam, I have a language barrier . They only speak German and I'm learning German, tricky. My SO acts very laid back and I'm surprised his parents haven't discussed with him coming to visit or the plan. Not really much I can do tho I guess, my SO will have to be in charge of that. he has said his mom mentioned for us to tell them when it would be time to come visit. Haven't mentioned being there for the birth which I'm surprised?
How did you all approach it with your SO? Was he laid back too about it? How did you approach fam about it?
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