everyone says I'm being selfish...
I got 5+ messages at a time asking how's the baby and mom doing, and didn't reply to any, tried to reply to my mom but even that fell through because I'm only on day 3 with my baby, I'm taking him in and cuddling him non-stop.
My mom just sent me a text saying everyone thinks I'm being selfish for only giving updates on fb and not letting anyone come see him. We've been home less than 24 hours... She said she wants to back off since I'm not replying to her. Meaning what? I didn't reply to two texts so backing off would be her pushing me away when I do reply?
I really don't want to have to worry about other people's feelings right now (I actually don't care about how others feel right now) but when my husband goes back to work I can't have anyone on my bad side incase I need help. I just think it's rude for them to add this to my plate on top of a newborn and 3 dogs. Now I have to worry about how me being busy makes them feel?
Am I selfish? Even if I am, am I wrong?
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