How do I tell my bff she is dating a huge douche?

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This guy is a huge jerk and she's so in love, but it's just going to end in heartbreak and I know that. He is so shitty to her, and I don't want to see her get hurt. How do I tell her?

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If your anything like me you will just straight out say it "hey your bf is a jackass" and she wont listen but you just stand by here and wait then be there when she realises he is a pos. N tell her you told her he was you warned her. (im brutally honest and blunt with my bestie) dont beat around the bush

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I would recommend bringing it up to her, give her examples of times he's treated her badly. Either she will be like "oh man you're right about him" but she could also get upset about you mentioning it. At least mention it once, I wouldnt recommend constantly saying that her boyfriend is shitty.

Everyone will react differently though, so if you know she will turn on you for it, maybe it's best to let things happen.  :/ There have definitely been situations where I wish my friends spoke up about a potentially abusive person I was dating before it was too late.

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If anyone told me my boyfriend was a douche I'd kick there ass. Then again my boyfriends the most amazing man ever

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True making it obvious to her in actions instead of words. Like videoing it and showing her later or say find a movie that has something like it and watch with her and talk about it

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She has to figure that out herself. You can be there for her, but you risk loosing your friend if she doesn't see it.

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As much as she'll get hurt. If you value your friendship you don't tell her. This is a mistake you have to let her experience. If you tell her and she dumps him she'll blame you and that can ruin a friendship. If you tell her and she stays with him she won't want to hang out with you because you don't like him and she'll also likely tell him so he'll encourage her not to spend time worth someone trying to drive a wedge in their relationship. There's really no good way for you to tell her and keep a friendship.

How do I tell my bff she is dating a huge douche?

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