How would you feel......?

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How would you ladies feel if you found out your husband masterbates, 5-6 times a week, bc you fell asleep on the couch quite often lately? This would happen in your bed, and the he would get up to grab something to clean up with, but not try to wake you up....  Of course that would take less time than finding a decent video to watch on porn Hub, anyway....

Oh, while TTC after a rival reversal....

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I mean it sucks, but if you aren't interested in sex with him that night, what's the problem with him pleasing himself?  If he knew that I wanted sex that night, then I'd be upset, but masterbation is normal.

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Unless he rejected you prior to masturbating I wouldn't have an issue with it.

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Tracy, this is your husband. Get to the bottom of this. There are so many variables! Sex Addictions, other thoughts, or not wanting to conceive at this time. Financially it's a huge deal. Whatever reason find out. Good luck to you. It's not a good feeling all. If your husband wants it, he'll wake you up, unless he does not have your consent to do so. Good Luck sweetie.

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If I was always saying no cause I was tired or asking him not to wake me,  I might care less. But if I take it every time he offers, initiates with him and such,  I would be upset.

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I haven't said no.  I've actually tried a few times. He says not right now or quit touchin it...

Then I find this out!? 😞

No wonder I can't conceive.... I'm getting shit sperm

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Wouldn't bother me at all

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Personally I would not be OK with it... But then again, porn is not a part of our relationship,  neither of use it.  When we want some fun we just turn to each other.  Ultimately, if it makes you feel bad,  there's no denying that.

How would you feel......?

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