Sex Advice

So I always grew up saying I would wait until marriage to have sex. Long story short I lost my virginity at 19. I'm now 22 and currently in my first relationship since then. My boyfriend is a virgin and I've been his first for everything. I honestly kind of feel like a whore when my sex life is even brought up. But he has talked about wanting to have sex yet hasn't made the move towards it. I know he feels uncomfortable and insecure so should making the move towards sex be something I do or should I wait until he makes the move. I'm really the type of girl who likes the guy to make those moves but ya know a girl has needs and this ones kinda needy right now. Advice please!