Confusion

Brionne • over thinker. book worm. food fanatic. addicted to Harry Potter weekend.
So a guy I had a crush on years back finally notices me and starts to talk to me. He's a little too flirty at first and sends lots of intimate photos to me. After some dates and spending lots of time together we ended up having sex. Afterwards we both came out and said it shouldn't have happened because that's not what we originally wanted. He wants to date me, but I thought totally oppostie of him from the photos. Now we've done it numerous times and he doesn't really talk about going too much further into a relationship. We live in different cities so when he goes home after our weekends together he loses touch. What should I do with this situationship?