when will you feel safe?!

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At which week do you think you will finally feel confident that you will have a healthy baby? I've read about ppl having miscarriages after seeing a heartbeat and I just feel like I'll never feel confident that I'll have a baby in 9 months !!

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I don't think I'll feel safe until I have a baby in my arms, and even then, there's a whole new set of worries! 
Our last mmc we saw a beautiful strong heartbeat at 6w6d and then 3 weeks later our angel was gone. 
It has definitely affected how I feel this time around. I want to be excited but just feel terrified instead.

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I'm just really trying not to worry about it. What will happen will happen. All I can do is try to be healthy and be hopeful.

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I have no idea! All I know is right now I am beyond terrified of it happening! I feel like I need to test every day just to make are there's still a line. I never thought I'd worry once I became pregnant but it's in my head everyday. I had a breakdown last might because when I went to the bathroom I saw the slightest tinge of pink when I wiped and I started freaking out. But of course when you look that stuff up you see so many things you don't want to see. Needless to say I hope I can feel confident soon!

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I felt safer after I could feel regular kicks last time.  I did panic again near the end though.

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Hard to say. I had a MMC in March at 10w 4d after seeing a heartbeat at 8w. I def will feel much better once I reach 12 weeks.

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Prob after 12 weeks. I believe the miscarriage rate drops significantly after that

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Maybe after I hit 4 months I'll start to ease up a little, i miscarriaged last September at 16 weeks so I'm always on edge now 😩

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But as an ex-NICU nurse, I pry won't ever feel safe til my rainbow baby is born.

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This is my first pregnancy but my guess is that even when my baby is born, I'll still be a worrywart.

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Probably not for a long time. I work postpartum and see a lot of incompetent cervix, miscarriage, fetal demise. It's terrifying

when will you feel safe?!

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