Tired of Husband (not responsible)

Need your advice. Im tired of reminding my husband of things need to be taken care of. Lets say quote for fence repair, booking a hall for baby shower, i cant breathe cleaning sprays, oil change, wipers changed, bathroom cleaning, etc. We both are same age. I am 19 weeks, hes mature enough, he doesnt need to be reminded hes fucking 30 years and needs to get things done. Men dont have to remind us to cook meals or sth. Not that ive had arguments with him to change himslef. Whatd you ladies suggest?