casual sex?

Question

Is it bad if I loose my virginity with a boy who is not my boyfriend but just a really good friend who I've been close friends with for years and years? And only recently we've seen eschother in a sexual way?

Answer

Here's what I'll say,
My boyfriend and I were best friends for 2 years while I was dating my ex. When we broke up, my boyfriend and I had sex and THEN started dating. We had originally planned to just be friends with benefits. 
We are non-monogamous, which means we don't mind each other having sex with other people as long as we tell each other. If we do not tell each other, we consider that cheating. 
If you are dating someone, and are doing sexual acts outside the relationship without consent from your SO, then that is cheating.

But, this is your life. This is your situation. Go with your gut. Just keep in mind the consequences.

Answer

I honestly wouldn't recommend losing your virginity to him, only because that could take a very negative turn for your friendship. It sounds like you two have a great relationship. If you feel like it's the right thing to do, then go for it, but I feel like if you have to ask then you may be experiencing some doubts yourself. Go with your gut.

Answer

Not at all, as long as you feel comfortable with him and happy.

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