my friend made a good point the other day on how to think about things when your partner does something bad in the relationship. If your boyfriend cheated on you, would you stay? If you said yes, would you still want your friends to stay with a cheater if they were dating one? What if you had a child who were also cheated on? Would you want them to stay with them? Not just cheating though, other bad stuff including. It really made me think. Not sure if this is helpful, but to me it was and hopefully it will give you ladies some ideas on what to do if you're going through some troubles