why isn't sex pleasurable?

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I've been sexually active for 3 years bf it's never felt good to me. I like the idea of it and thrill but it doesn't do anything for me. Is there a medication I can take to make me actually feel pleasure?

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For me it was having sex with someone I actually truly had feelings for and he had feelings for me. Before then nothing ever felt good.

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I don't know any medication that could help but maybe it's not you. Maybe the people you were with just sucked lol. I've personally been with a lot of guys and from my experience each one couldn't please me the way I wanted to be pleased. For example, one guy might finger me like a queen but he can't last long in bed. Then another might be bad at fingering, can't last long but is amazing at oral sex. It all depends on what you like. So explore yourself or suggest your partner try something new.

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Not saying this is definitely the reason...but you could be gay? I was sexually involved with men and was super confused because I thought I was into them but I never felt anything. Then I realized I was in love with a woman and there was an instant spark. We've been together two years and I still get butterflies when we kiss. Again, not saying this means you're gay, it could be that you just don't feel super connected to him for whatever reason. But anyway, don't limit yourself. It doesn't hurt to experiment with others to find what you like! (Obviously don't cheat on him, though. If the sex is bad and this is a deal breaker, maybe it's time to break up.)

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Have you tried clitoral stimulation? Vibrators? Shower head on your clitoral area? Something has to help. Most women can't not orgasam from penetration alone.

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Damn boo! Lmfao I've only been sexually active for a little over a year now but that shit be feeling good each time! I have never used a vibrator, toys, or anything! Just good old fashioned hands, and when my BF around his dick😂. Sex so good that I can feel it when I think about it😂. But maybe just try new moves! Try having longer foreplay. Maybe role play with each other! I always do the good cop bad cop, or rapist thing. I just like things rough.

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