Everyone keeps telling me I'm spoiling her! They say i need to let her self sooth Ex1: while putting her in her car seat she starts to cry so me or my SO swing her gently back and forth to calm her down my SO mom said were a spoiling her! Ex2: SO's brother said we were spoiling her because occasionally when she's over tired she will be EXTREMELY hard to get to sleep so we walk while holding her to help her fall asleep!

Those are just two examples of many that I have😒 I just don't understand how I can "spoil" my baby by trying to take care of her