when did you announce to family/friends at a (high risk)-pregnancy
When did you announce you were pregant ? I'm at a high risk pregancy I'm almost 4 months pregnant.... I didn't want to tell anyone other than my fiancé I was pregnant at all!!! Only because you know I didn't want to everyone to feel bad if I had a miscarriage and then everyone's feeling bad for me and all ... Don't get me wrong I don't mind the support and all but it will just hurt me more when people would ask me how many months I was and that happened I'd break down idk you know. At first I told my family and my in laws. I told them when I was 2 months(I knew I was pregnant at 6 weeks ) but I asked them if they could well kinda keep it a secret and I explained to them why I only told them first and wanted it kept a secret. Don't get me wrong I wanted to tell my friends but some things are private and they should or you hope they understand . Like I said I'm almost 4 months pregant and I have a little bump showing since I'm petite you can see my little bump☺️ I told me closest friends recently and one of my friends she idk if she was mad or disappointed I didn't tell her. One of my friend I told before her was my best friend since preschool and I'm the GodMother of her son so since I'm the Godmother I figured I'd tell her .She understood and was excited. Recently I met up with the girls and told them. Like I said one of my friends was mad idk because I didn't tell her. Right away . 😕i told her she needed to understand why and she was mad and kept with the attitude. If you're not willing to understand what's going on or support my choices then let it be. I was kinda bummed since that day I was telling a little better I havnt been feeling my best and idk but oh well... Doesn't matter if your high risk pregnancy or not do you think you're "obligated" to tell your friends know right away? Or they should respect you and just wait until you feel comfortable to tell them ☺️
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