He says he wants to start a family and will always make off beat jokes and reffers to them as dad jokes. Our friend has a babyand everytime we hang out withthem he will say this is my baby and get a spark in his eye. He says he wants everything to be perfect before we try. We both have a good paying jobs he makes 14 and hour and i make 13 and hour we have 3000 put away in savings and currently rent a two bed appartment. Idk how i can tell him how badly i want to start trying and explain it will never be "perfect" with out him getting anxious or scared. Even his dad said he wants us to start trying. We have also had a scare a while ago and when my flow finally came he said he was kind of upset and getting use to the idea