Sooo I have reached my 6 week postpartum check up on Tuesday. But im a little concerned!!! This might by TMI. but i see that my vagina is still stretched out. Like my lips and my incision kinda hurts : ( i had a episiotomy (spell check)

Doctor just did a pap smear and told me what kind of birth control I wanted and sent me home. Should i have asked if i was okay to have sex or check where my incision was at.??? I feel like im not going to be tight down there for when I have intimacy with my husband. Has anyone dealth with this??? Like my vagina dont look the same.