Husband more concerned about racing

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We find out our baby's gender Friday. So on Saturday I told him we are going baby cloths shopping. He doesn't have to come if he doesn't want to. All he could say back "it takes money to drive the 35 minutes to the mall". I'm paying for lunch and all of the baby stuff??? Then he's tells me he's driving 2 HOURS for the third weekend in a row to go drit bike racing. I know there's worse things to be mad about but he goes to the gym every day for 3 hours and now he needs Sundays for "me" days?