32 weeks pregnant and husband got a job an hour away from home. RANT

Really hard not to take it personally.... my husband took a job an hour away from home when I'm in my home stretch of my pregnancy. He had a wonderful job in the city we are moving to next week. Already rented a house and rented out our own house in this small town an hour and a bit away. I took it personally because he assumed I would have no problem with him working 12 hour to 14 hour days 7am to 7pm but leaves here at 6 am because he needs to get to work and doesn't come home till 8-9 pm. He had a job paying him the same money, same hours, really amazing company, chance for raises and really good health care that benifited me and his daughter for a job that pays the same money, farther away from us, super shitty health care that you don't get till after a year of work, and really long hours. He assumed I would have no problem packing the house by my self well 32 weeks pregnant, taking on all house chore responsibility, the baby on my own for all day and night every day and night, well going to school and working after 4 months of mat leave.... my life is a living hell at this point because he spends more time at the job he loves more than he loves his own family worst part. Me and baby girl don't see a penny that's why I had to go back to work at 30 weeks pregnant all the way up till just before I pop. Than go back to work after I pop only 4 months later well continuing my university course. Well being a full time mom and working on top of it. Well maintaining my marriage, clean house, and somehow in his words look presentable. Aka hot so his friends think I'm hot not a slob in pj's and messy hair with school text books all over my swollen pregnant body. Yes his words not mine. Oh and how my swollen, stretched out, pregnant body isn't attractive. I even blind shaved my hoha last night to fucking make him happy which in return he told me my hoha didn't look better either way. Try shaving at 32 weeks pregnant. I am a fucking balooga whale. 5'3 in hight and only weighed 128 before pregnancy now I weigh 156 well pregnant and I'm only belly. From behind I don't even look pregnant! Ugh I wish he would get off his high horse and help me bUT nope his new job is destroying us. But he seems to think it's fine. Rant over. Ugh 😠