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So i lost my virginity about 3 months ago and me and my boyfriend were trying to have sex again and it was the same as the first time. It hurt because he was stretching me out. Does anyone else have this problem?

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Try not to be nervous because being nervous only makes it more uncomfortable. And using lube is a great idea. Remember to reflex don't overthink

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It'll always be a little uncomfortable if you don't have enough lubrication. He is stretching you but your vaginal walls are supposed to stretch, so it's not really that. Just make sure to lube more. Start slow and get gradual once it's completely in again.

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Same for me. Once you get used to it and relax more the pain and tightness (usually due to nervousness) will go away. Try foreplay- fingering or oral sex to help relax you. Or even a nice bath right before.

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I've only had sex three times. all three times hurt, but the third only hurt as he was pushing himself in. after that, it didn't hurt at all until he'd shift and go deeper, which was just a little uncomfortable but not necessarily painful.

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