I'm pretty sure I've gained complete independence since my last boyfriend (4 years ago). Now I have a new boyfriend who is great to me and I think he may be the man that I can see myself with in the future. My problem is that I've gotten so comfortable being single that it's really hard for me to give it up. I find myself always b****ing at him for so many things because despite the fact that he has such amazing qualities, I still find things that bug the crap out of me about him. Everyone around me says that I should be patient because it will grow on me. I'm just worried that it won't. I feel like I'm just trying to make everyone else happy. I can't really vent to anyone because they will think I'm not even trying.