So I've only had one sexual partner ever, my SO I've been with for almost four years. We've been active for I think almost two years now, always using condoms. We've never had issues with it breaking or anything going wrong, but I was wondering if I should get birth control? It seems most girls do. But I grew up without a mom and never gave it a lot of thought. It seems that I may not have to pay a lot for it, but I am a tiny bit nervous about going to planned parenthood, but what the real issue is is that I have a huge phobia of vomiting, and I know that/nausea can be a side effect of the pill and I can't handle that. It won't be worth it to me. Id rather use condoms or give up sex than feel sick. So I don't know what to do. My relationship is wonderful, respectful, he isn't pressuring me into getting BC or anything, and our sex life is great, it would just be interesting to try, and potentially even more healthy or safe for me? I'm not sure. I just can't handle that sick side effect. I cant. And I don't know how I feel about implants and all of that. I don't think I want that. What do I do?? :(