sick of it all

I'm so sick of constantly trying to date and get into relationships when I always end up being screwed over. I've dated two guys who were in serious relationships with other people and I was their side secret without even knowing and I've had three guys tell me that we are good and getting along to only be ghosted or told that I'm only wanted for my body. Sometimes I just feel so sick of being looked st as an object and not a person and I feel like I can't connect with anyone and find love