There's this stigma that you shouldn't have a gender preference. You should just be happy to have a healthy baby. As someone who has had a loss, and a healthy baby, I don't mind when people say they want a certain gender over the other! Personally, I want a girl, because I already have a son. However, boys run very strong on both sides of the family, so not sure what to expect! Of course I want him/her to be healthy though, and would be happy either way.  What are your opinions?