So I don't really care for my MIL. But she is my son's grandma, and because of that I won't prevent her from seeing him. And this is why. Look at how happy he is. He loves being with her and she loves him, and that bond is what matters. He can make his own choices about her in the future, whether he likes her or not. And I will never, ever let him hear me put her down when I complain to my husband about her.