Bed time help

My dd just turned 10 months she's bf and has always been a terrible sleeper she starts in her crib each night around 8-9 then wakes at least once before 11-12 on an average night then we bring her in our bed when we got to bed. She still wakes maybe 3-5 times the rest of the night. I've given up on solving that. My issue now is that she used to bed at bedtime we have a routine and she would always fall asleep within 10 min of holding her. But the past few weeks she gotten so bad when I put her to sleep she can be exhausted and suddenly she'll want to play. I don't give in I tell her no it's sleepy time I keep holding her and singing to her but it'll go on for up to an hour of her climbing on me laughing and trying to play. If my husband is home I call him in after awhile and she's always much better for him. He plays her a little bedtime video she likes. She is always more difficult when I try to get her to sleep. Any advice on why she might be doing this? I'm going crazy.