Do you feel insecure or get upset when your SO say no to having sex?

Question

I get super upset when my fiance says no to having sex with me. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough or that's he's cheating or doesn't love me as much anymore. I've been insecure my entire life so I get easily upset if he says no to sex since in the beginning we were basically dogs in heat.. we used to do it twice a day and now we do it maybe like twice a week.

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Not really. Sometimes you just aren't in the mood or things are going on in life and you are stressed out, or not feeling well, or tired after a long day. He has just as much right to decline sex as I do. It doesn't mean anything other than he's not in the mood for sex at that moment.

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No reason to get upset or insecure

He just doesnt want to have sex at that moment he could be stressed life happens or hes just simply not in the mood its ok he has a right to say no just as much as anyone else

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Yess although it's almost rare from him to tell me now, but once he told me No while I'm pregnant and I just cried 😂 and the other time he gave me pity sex cause he felt bad 😂 so sad.

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I feel insecure. We don't have sex that often anymore and when I try to instigate and he says he's tired I do take it personally, even though I know I shouldn't. Since we're TTC it's been extra hard.

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No, because if I said no to sex and he got upset or pressured me to change my mind I would not be ok with that.

Do you feel insecure or get upset when your SO say no to having sex?

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