I was 17 and a senior in high school when I lost my virginity. I lost it to a person I thought was my friend and I've known him since 8th grade and we've were pretty good friends. I had him for a class our junior year and we weren't very close but we talked every now and then but he slide into my dms one day on Instagram and asked for my number so I gave it to him but I wanted to know why he wanted it. I use to "talk" to his bestfriend before but that didn't workout and now me and his bestfriend don't talk anymore but he said that I was pretty cool and he started flirting with me which I thought was kind of weird because I didn't think I was his "Type" but we were texting each other basically everyday and we've done some things together, he was the first guy I ever gave head to, which was very awkward for me at first and then we continued talking throughout the summer and then school starts again and it's senior year. We went to his house one morning to hangout and then we had sex and since it was my first time, it hurt like hell. I thought we were gonna be a thing, but when we went back to school, he never texted me at all or talked to me anymore. The next day I confronted him about it but he said that he can't talk to me anymore cause he has a girlfriend now... I did cry for quite a long time but I got over because I knew that I deserved better, after that I completely changed but not because of him but because for myself. He made me feel completely useless and I didn't want to go through something like that again. So I lived my life, went to parties, football games and hung out with friends. I was happy and didn't care about any drama or him. So one day he saw my in the hallways and it was during class so nobody was around, we had sex in august and it was febuary, so 7 months pass and throughout those 7 month m, we both acted like we're nonexistent to each other. He stopped me in the hallway and he said hi and I acted as if I didn't see him but he just kept trying to have a conversation and he asked if I still had his number which I did and told me to text him but I didn't so he texted me first and acted as if nothing happened between me and him. Let me remind you that he still had a girlfriend but he had the audacity to blackmail me into having sex with him again which I knew was complete bullshit, but  ignored him but he kept bothering me but to me, he still was nonexistent to me. This happened until graduation and a bit after but my boyfriend asked me out on our graduation night. The guy kept bothering me afterward and when I told him I had a botfriend, he started comparing himself to him, but I honestly couldn't care less. I'm still living life with my boyfriend to this day while the guy just got dumped from his girlfriend just recently lmao. I'm living life☺️✌🏼️