Driving them crazy? Listen, my mother in law does a lot for us so that's nice of her... But she's been driving me nuts lately and taking over everything..... This will be my moms first grandchild... But it's not my MIL's first. I want my mom to be able to do a lot for me and the baby but it's like my MIL won't allow it. 😖 my mom wants to do a lot for my shower and my MIL takes over... She even told everyone in my family that if I have a C section I'm going to stay at her house for a week or so... And this is without consulting me or my husband 😡