is this fucked up?
My husband has been smoking cigarettes since before we met. I think it is absolutely disgusting.
His twin boys got taken away because his ex wife went next door for hours at a time to smoke cigs while leaving the boys inside the house alone. They eventually got out and ran around the neighborhood naked when a cop found them.
His mother died of cancer (not lung cancer but cancer none the less).
He's made a promise to me that when he got out of the hospital (back in may, was there for a week) that he would stop smoking.
He made a promise that he would quit smoking before we got married.
And he made a promise that if I ever become pregnant that he would stop smoking. I became pregnant and had a chemical pregnancy about a month ago-he didnt stop smoking.
Is it fucked your to tell him I don't want to try and have a baby until he quits smoking?
We argue about him smoking at least once a week. He always tells me he's trying.
I think that if I fall pregnant and he's still smoking I'll be so stressed and my emotions would be all over the place. I think that we would argue even more about him smoking.
And all that stress could be harmful to the baby.
Is it fucked up guys?
Please give me your honest opinion.
UPDATE: my husband and I bought him a vape about three months ago (in late July). He uses high nicotine and still smokes both ciggs and the vape.
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